They're Old Enough

| By Scott McClellan | Found in Communication | 5 Comments

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I know, I know. Basing a blog post around a Seth Godin blog post is hardly original, but I love what Seth had to say on New Year’s Day. Particularly, this chunk:

The first internet generation is old enough to spend money, go to work and build companies.

Think about that — today’s twentysomethings grew up networking, communicating, updating, tweaking, downloading, distributing, and remixing. Now, they’re out of school and ready to contribute to the real world (whatever that is). As Ben Arment points out today, they view work differently than their parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents. My guess is that they see church differently, too.

They want to network, communicate, update, tweak, download, distribute, and remix. They want to discover and share meaning. They want to be a part of change. They expect media and technology to be a part of it all.

However (and this is just my opinion), what they don’t want is for media and technology in churches and other organizations to be confined to producing a better spectator event. Experiences, connections, communication — YES. “Sit still for an hour and watch this” — NO.

Today, the first Internet generation is probably known as “young adults,” “young marrieds,” “college and career,” and “young singles” in your church. A decade or two from now, the first Internet generation could be known as elders, deacons, lay leaders, and pastors in your church. You know, if they’re still around. If they haven’t fled in search of meaning experiences, connections, and communication.

Believe it or not, the first Internet generation is old enough to begin shaping the direction of your church. Invite them in or push them out.

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  • Irene Proctor

    I am a 50-something, and based on my observation and reflection from personal experience with my 20-somethings (family, friends, co-workers), I think you nailed it. You would think that, having grown up immersed in a media and tech-saturated world, that this generation would only be interested in more of the same…but in progressively bigger and better forms than previously seen/experienced. But this is not the case! Their passion is authenticity; and, yes…quality (they don't like cheese)…but not at the expense of a real, face-to-face confrontation with who they are and the God Who loves them! Amazing! I think God is really up to something big with this generation!

  • http://worshipVJ.com proctor (stephen)

    wow. i kind of lost focus on what the blog was about b/c i saw my brother-in-law's tweet mentioned and then my mom just commented. #worldscollide (no pun intended)
    before all that, i was still going to comment.

    scott, you're dead on about us (the 20 somethings). I remember my Apple peanut gaming PC as a kid, and my Packard Bell and dial-up 14.4k connection in my teen years. And here i am, (still in my 20s..barely) running a company and trying to figure out my place of leadership in the church. Lord help us all.

    You explained well what could look contradictory to older mindsets…. the fact that we are all about technology and media but we don't place high value on bigger and better spectacle events of worship. In fact, we have a bit of a bad taste in our mouth from the constant over-produced events (at least i do)… and part of our longing for authenticity is a return to the simple (even if just for moments of remembrance & renewal).

    and that means a lot of exploring and discovering and making mistakes….which is very inefficient and problematic for the baby-boomer generation that is leading our churches more like a business than an organic family.

    But one day we will be the older mindset …and i wonder what our kids will be longing for in our churches. I hope I will be open-handed enough to relinquish enough control to allow others to do things differently. I hope this is what is happening today with the older generation…. b/c Lord knows we need their wisdom.

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/stephenbateman stephenbateman

    I am…."them" or at least almost (19).

    My church at college has made the idea of "family" more than a cute metaphor. Couple of observations:

    1. A churches brave venture into social media is probably not going to impress us.
    2. In fact I (or we) have seen better, it doesn't matter what category.
    3. We want to be more than spectators, but need help. Television, lecture format at school, and fast food make creativity daunting.
    4. Stories work, no matter how raw.
    5. So many of us grew up without fathers that we've never experienced family done well.

    I almost want to say churches, let's do better but churches *try* really hard, I really don't know where the breakdown is.

  • Katie

    I'm on that demographic as well and I think you're dead on. Ultimately what our generation needs is for the present church leadership to take us under their wing and mentor us as they let us begin to lead. Instead we fall into an "us vs. them" or a "old vs. new" mentality and end up where many churches are today – losing the 20 something generation.

    The whole business vs. family model that Proctor brings up is just beginning to wrestle with my brain. Does it have to be one or the other? Can it be both? Can we learn something from how the current leadership generation runs the church and improve upon it rather than start from scratch?

    As far as authenticity and connections: I don't think those are limited to the 20 something generation. I think in general society is craving that again. They're recovering from the generation of career is life and seeking balance to include relationships. The target demographic at our church is 19-25 but we have people coming from birth to 80 years old. The two things they say they come back for: the message that contains truth and isn't "fluffy" as they say, and the sense of connection they feel to others who attend. None of that has to do with the music, the screen, the lights, the videos, etc.